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No. Everbecome is practice with other people: choosing something to work on and being witnessed while you do. It is not therapy or medical care, and nobody here is trained to treat anything. There is a plain page on the difference: coaching, not therapy.

It doesn't mean someone watched you do the thing. Nobody here did. It means someone noticed that you came back and said what happened, which is the part that was hard.

You don't pick them and they don't pick you. Three to eight people, placed for you, each with a promise of their own. There are no profiles to browse and no way to search for anyone. The pod is ongoing: the same people stay for as long as they stay, and it seats a newcomer only while there is room. If it is ever not the right fit, you can ask for a different pod.

Then you didn't, and you say so. Your pod will have seen the days you kept and the days you didn't. Not keeping a promise usually says something about the promise: that it was too big, or that it wasn't the thing you actually wanted. Both are worth finding out, and neither costs you your place here. Without a pod, the same is true; there is just no one to say it to but yourself, and Today will still ask how it went.

Your pod sees your check-ins, and so does a Steward, your Guide or staff if one steps in, in the open and marked as such. That is the point of a pod. A check-in on a promise you hold without a pod is read by no one but you. Your journal is encrypted and no screen we run shows it to anyone but you. There is no member directory, no profiles to scroll, and no private messages.

No. Every member holds one promise, pod or no pod. With a pod, your check-ins are witnessed. Without one, they are private, and Everbecome does the noticing a pod would: when you come back after a gap, it says so. No streak, no tally.

Any day. Rewrite it on Today; the old wording stays in your history as a renegotiation, not a failure. When a promise is done, close it on purpose. Closing is recorded, never erased, and Today offers a new one.

Four or five minutes on most days. You read something short, do one small thing, and write a line about how it went. It is built to survive a bad week rather than to fill a good one: the smallest honest version of your practice still counts, and a day you miss is a day that happened, not a streak you broke.

No. The practice and your pod are free, no card, and they always will be.

No. Your pod is ongoing: it stays together for as long as you do, in cycles of four weeks. Each cycle gives it a rhythm, a quiet moment to look at your promise, and a note from someone who noticed you. Programs, free or with a membership, run alongside it and never move you out of it.

No response you receive is written by a machine. Reminders are automated, so the software will tell you your pod is waiting. But every word another member sends you was typed by that member. Nothing a member writes is generated, suggested, or auto-filled on their behalf: not a check-in, a reply, or a note. A Guide may run a wording check on their own Words before publishing, and only a person publishes.

Memberships, tickets to Gatherings, and seats members sponsor for others through the Kindling Fund. That is the whole of it. There are no ads anywhere in Everbecome, nothing about you is sold or shared for advertising, and no tracking SDK ships in the app. Guides who run a community are paid a share of what their own community earns, so the people teaching are paid by the people they teach rather than by anyone buying attention. The free tier is free because it is meant to be, not because you are the product.

The practice is free, and stays free. The Path (free) holds the daily practice, your encrypted journal, the community and its trails, the live sessions as they open, and your pod: ongoing, with its witness ritual every four weeks. Inner Work ($9/mo) is the one paid membership: a deeper, private look at your own practice over time. Your pod is not part of it. Today it holds the programs that come with membership; the long view is open to every member while it takes shape, and nothing is sold that is not said plainly here first. Fireside is not a membership plan: it is a facilitated small group with your Guide, being designed as its own experience. Some programs are free to join; others come with Inner Work. The full comparison is on the pricing page.

Where you joined is where you're billed. On the web, payment runs through Stripe under your Everbecome account. On an iPhone or iPad, membership is bought through the App Store and managed by Apple. On Android, through Google Play and managed by Google. The app always tells you plainly where your membership is managed. Refunds follow the refund policy.

Open Settings in the app (You, then Settings): Cancel is there, two taps. If you're billed through the App Store, the app sends you to Apple's own subscription settings, the only place Apple lets anyone cancel. Canceling stops the next renewal; everything you've paid for runs to the end of its term, and your place in your pod holds through the current pod cycle so you never vanish mid-week. Cancelling never touches your pod.

On a phone, open Settings, then Membership, then Change plan, and tap "Restore purchases" with the same account signed in. Web-billed memberships come back the moment you sign in, with nothing to restore.

Both live in the app's Settings, under your own hand. "Download everything", under Privacy & data, hands you one file with everything you wrote. Deleting your account shows you exactly what will be removed before you confirm, and the removal is real, not a deactivation. The full account of what deletion does is further down this page.

Yes. There is an optional Face ID / fingerprint lock in Settings. Your practice is yours alone, and the lock keeps it that way on a shared or borrowed phone.

Every member has a personal invite code, under Settings, in Invitations. Someone who joins with your code can land in the same pod as you, so you practice witnessed by someone who knows you. And when three people you brought become paying members, a month of Inner Work is on us: applied to your account automatically, no claiming, no forms.

Yes, selectively. Ambassadors bring their audience into a real practice through a named door, and share in the revenue of the members they bring. It is a partnership by agreement, not a program you enroll in: write to hello@everbecome.com with where your audience lives, and a person will reply.

Write to us: hello@everbecome.com. A person reads it. If you or someone near you is in danger, skip the email and use the crisis resources. They come first.